Hey Family,
So glad to hear you are doing well. It's a big joke here about how my family moved to Utah. Everybody is saying things like, "Why would they move to Utah. San Diego is so beautiful. It has the best weather in the world." San Diego to New Yorkens and Connecticutians is like New York to us. But I'm really excited for you all and excited to (one day in the far future) come home to the new Utah place. Change is always exciting.
So first, what I've learned from my studies this week. Patience just doesn't deal with others. Patience deals with the Lord too. We are patient in our lives when we can face challenges and trials without getting angry, frustrated, or anxious. Why is patience such a great thing to have? It makes your life so much more relaxed! You can be sure that the Lord is in control and that you just need to rely on the his timing. Sometimes I used to think that trials came because I was doing something wrong and if I just fixed that one thing my life, everything would be better. But many times we just need to know that the Lord is in control and knows how much we can handle. That if you just work to do our part, being patient with ourselves, that the Lord can handle the rest! Hopefully that made sense. Patience is such a cool thing.
So now the down-low on everything else.
We had Mission Conference yesterday. It was all about temples and the importance of them. Really good. I learned some amazing things, probably not what I will teach investigators, but my understanding of the temple increased. It's funny because just at the times I think that I"m getting this whole missionary thing down, something comes up and I realize how much I don't know! It is sometimes frustrating, but I try to let it motivate me to study more. We also had water games that day for the second half instead of a training. Probably to boost morale and unity. It was really fun and a good break.
Blessing for the week. Maybe you remember Maria and Jairo who we were teaching. Well, they weren't coming to church despite inviting them every week and every week they would say that they would come and then they wouldn't. It was a hard decision, but we decided to stop visiting them for awhile and because they have so many problems going on at home they told us that they would call us when things were better. So for about two weeks we didn't go by, though we left notes here and there.
One night we decided to visit them again, and when we went in it was really awkward. Maria almost seemed mad at us at first. She later asked us why we had stopped coming and to not do that again. Both Maria and Jairo said it was a bad decision to have us stop coming. So we scheduled another appointment with them and extended a baptismal date, which they accepted! It won't be until December though because Maria has to get over an addiction to drugs. But they have that goal and are working for the 6th of December. I don't know if I'll be there for that, but I'm just glad that they are working for that.
Mirian, has been another story. She loves church and she loves the things we teach, but she won't accept a date. She keeps saying that she needs more time. We've extended about three different dates to her and each time she say she needs more time. We finally asked her how long she felt that she needed to which she responded "At least 6 months." 6 months! That is so far away. Our plan is to teach her everything to be ready, which will be another 3 weeks and then tell her that she's ready. That we have nothing more to teach. I believe it will shock her and prepare her better for baptism. She's just comfortable where she is at, with us stopping by and learning more. She's another one I just love so much and needs to be baptized. They just don't understand how important it is.
The first presidency has encouraged us to vote this year for elections. I tried looking into absentee ballots before I left, but it was a confusing thing trying to register that early and I wasn't able to figure it out before I left. Do you know what the process would be for me to get an absentee ballot. I don't know how that would work with the move. Am I still registered for California. That's where my driver's license is at.... by the way... do I need to different driver's license because technically I'm not from the Santee address any more. Please let me know.
So this cycle I'm really focusing on increasing my understanding in spanish. Dad, Nathan, Jarom or any others who have learned a different language. Do you have any suggestions on what helped you during this whole language learning process. Sometimes I think my studying of the language is so scattered that I don't really get anything from it. I thought it might be helpful if you were able to send me some talks in Spanish on a cd. Or any other suggestions would be helpful. I used to think that it would just come. As many people said, "It just takes time." Well, yes, that's true, but I think I can help it along faster with some good suggestions from other people. Please let me know for that as well.
This is becoming an epistle. Sorry, I'll try to cut the other stories shorter. It rained yesterday like none other. Thunder, down-pour, and all. I of course used my handy-dandy rain jacket.
We had a zone activity today. A picnic and I was able to play volleyball again after almost of year of withdrawal. It was lots of fun.
Last Sunday, Sis. Pena and I were in charge of the game for the ward Noche de Hogar (Spanish Family Home Evening). We divided everyone into groups, had them write down three things that would be embarrassing to do and then asked them questions. If they got the question wrong, they had to do the embarrasing thing. If they got it right, they picked another team to do the embarrassing thing. It turned out well. It was a little frustrating though because I would explain something and everyone would be like, "Huh, I don't get it." So then Sis. Pena would explain it saying the exact same thing and everyone was like, "Oh I understand." Maybe I should work on my accent.
We taught a member in our ward the Plan of Salvation to practice and to have her hear the lessons again since she is a fairly recent convert. She started getting into deep doctrine. Like whether they was another way for us instead of Adam and Eve eating the forbidden fruit.
She's funny. She's also redoing her house in the "California style" and keeps asking my opinion. "Does this look good? Does this give a California feel? I want it to be a California eclectic look." I don't even know what a CA eclectic look is. Oh well. We love Mary Kay.
Love you family and am always happy to hear from you. Thanks for the letter Ammon. Glad school is fun. Love you lots. Have a great time.
Love,
Erin
So glad to hear you are doing well. It's a big joke here about how my family moved to Utah. Everybody is saying things like, "Why would they move to Utah. San Diego is so beautiful. It has the best weather in the world." San Diego to New Yorkens and Connecticutians is like New York to us. But I'm really excited for you all and excited to (one day in the far future) come home to the new Utah place. Change is always exciting.
So first, what I've learned from my studies this week. Patience just doesn't deal with others. Patience deals with the Lord too. We are patient in our lives when we can face challenges and trials without getting angry, frustrated, or anxious. Why is patience such a great thing to have? It makes your life so much more relaxed! You can be sure that the Lord is in control and that you just need to rely on the his timing. Sometimes I used to think that trials came because I was doing something wrong and if I just fixed that one thing my life, everything would be better. But many times we just need to know that the Lord is in control and knows how much we can handle. That if you just work to do our part, being patient with ourselves, that the Lord can handle the rest! Hopefully that made sense. Patience is such a cool thing.
So now the down-low on everything else.
We had Mission Conference yesterday. It was all about temples and the importance of them. Really good. I learned some amazing things, probably not what I will teach investigators, but my understanding of the temple increased. It's funny because just at the times I think that I"m getting this whole missionary thing down, something comes up and I realize how much I don't know! It is sometimes frustrating, but I try to let it motivate me to study more. We also had water games that day for the second half instead of a training. Probably to boost morale and unity. It was really fun and a good break.
Blessing for the week. Maybe you remember Maria and Jairo who we were teaching. Well, they weren't coming to church despite inviting them every week and every week they would say that they would come and then they wouldn't. It was a hard decision, but we decided to stop visiting them for awhile and because they have so many problems going on at home they told us that they would call us when things were better. So for about two weeks we didn't go by, though we left notes here and there.
One night we decided to visit them again, and when we went in it was really awkward. Maria almost seemed mad at us at first. She later asked us why we had stopped coming and to not do that again. Both Maria and Jairo said it was a bad decision to have us stop coming. So we scheduled another appointment with them and extended a baptismal date, which they accepted! It won't be until December though because Maria has to get over an addiction to drugs. But they have that goal and are working for the 6th of December. I don't know if I'll be there for that, but I'm just glad that they are working for that.
Mirian, has been another story. She loves church and she loves the things we teach, but she won't accept a date. She keeps saying that she needs more time. We've extended about three different dates to her and each time she say she needs more time. We finally asked her how long she felt that she needed to which she responded "At least 6 months." 6 months! That is so far away. Our plan is to teach her everything to be ready, which will be another 3 weeks and then tell her that she's ready. That we have nothing more to teach. I believe it will shock her and prepare her better for baptism. She's just comfortable where she is at, with us stopping by and learning more. She's another one I just love so much and needs to be baptized. They just don't understand how important it is.
The first presidency has encouraged us to vote this year for elections. I tried looking into absentee ballots before I left, but it was a confusing thing trying to register that early and I wasn't able to figure it out before I left. Do you know what the process would be for me to get an absentee ballot. I don't know how that would work with the move. Am I still registered for California. That's where my driver's license is at.... by the way... do I need to different driver's license because technically I'm not from the Santee address any more. Please let me know.
So this cycle I'm really focusing on increasing my understanding in spanish. Dad, Nathan, Jarom or any others who have learned a different language. Do you have any suggestions on what helped you during this whole language learning process. Sometimes I think my studying of the language is so scattered that I don't really get anything from it. I thought it might be helpful if you were able to send me some talks in Spanish on a cd. Or any other suggestions would be helpful. I used to think that it would just come. As many people said, "It just takes time." Well, yes, that's true, but I think I can help it along faster with some good suggestions from other people. Please let me know for that as well.
This is becoming an epistle. Sorry, I'll try to cut the other stories shorter. It rained yesterday like none other. Thunder, down-pour, and all. I of course used my handy-dandy rain jacket.
We had a zone activity today. A picnic and I was able to play volleyball again after almost of year of withdrawal. It was lots of fun.
Last Sunday, Sis. Pena and I were in charge of the game for the ward Noche de Hogar (Spanish Family Home Evening). We divided everyone into groups, had them write down three things that would be embarrassing to do and then asked them questions. If they got the question wrong, they had to do the embarrasing thing. If they got it right, they picked another team to do the embarrassing thing. It turned out well. It was a little frustrating though because I would explain something and everyone would be like, "Huh, I don't get it." So then Sis. Pena would explain it saying the exact same thing and everyone was like, "Oh I understand." Maybe I should work on my accent.
We taught a member in our ward the Plan of Salvation to practice and to have her hear the lessons again since she is a fairly recent convert. She started getting into deep doctrine. Like whether they was another way for us instead of Adam and Eve eating the forbidden fruit.
She's funny. She's also redoing her house in the "California style" and keeps asking my opinion. "Does this look good? Does this give a California feel? I want it to be a California eclectic look." I don't even know what a CA eclectic look is. Oh well. We love Mary Kay.
Love you family and am always happy to hear from you. Thanks for the letter Ammon. Glad school is fun. Love you lots. Have a great time.
Love,
Erin
1 comment:
Nothing particularly relevant to this post, but I found your blog on a search for NYNYN. I served there 2000-2002. I started the Japanese program. (I suspect you're saying, "huh? what Japanese program?". It didn't last and that's a sore subject...)
Anyway, I have enjoyed reading your blog, even though you probably didn't mean for it to be public. I, too, served in Connecticut and Kingston (actually Saugerties, but I lived in Kingston). I really miss New York, but my wife's parents moved to Battery Park a couple years ago and we're going back for Christmas!
Anyway, just wanted to say "hi" and thanks for jogging so many great memories!
- Jon (er, Elder Miller?)
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